Just trying to

For several years I’ve tried keeping a daily or weekly journal. A cute little notebook from Target where I could release all of my pent up emotions. For whatever reason, I could never commit to it, even though I love to write. I can’t write to myself, but I love writing to others. Being vulnerable and creating connections is what I’m all about. So, in a way, this is my online journal. But it’s also not. It's more than that.

This is my way of coping and cultivating a safe place for myself to be who I really am. 

survive.

If you’re still here – my name is Tessa Stacy. I’m a 29 year old mom to three beautiful kids. Four if you include my husband. I’m a retired wedding photographer, failed real estate agent, online boutique owner, and college student of 12 years. As I said before, I love to write and share. Whether it’s about my outfit of the day or my struggle with miscarriages, I want to be open and real.
Regardless of what everyone says, blogging is so not dead. If anything, it’s made a revival in recent years. The possibilities are endless. My goal is to reach like-minded women who need a friend, but not one of those friends you need to text everyday to maintain a friendship. I aim to provide authentic, relatable content. I can be a shopping buddy, the neighbor to swap recipes with, another mom to vent to, or the shoulder to cry on after a pregnancy loss.
There’s already so much hatred and condemning in the world. This is a “judgment free, living life by the seat of my pants, compassion and kindness first, wear what makes you smile” sort of blog. By no means am I perfect and I will never claim to be, but I have lived through a lot of traumatic shit. I wish I could’ve had a safe space to release my feelings and creativity back then. But it’s never too late to start.

"YOU ARE IMPERFECT, YOU ARE WIRED FOR STRUGGLE, BUT YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE AND BELONGING.” BRENÉ BROWN

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